We need a better approach to relationships than the one our culture offers.When I met Karin (the girl that would later become my wife) at Duke University, we both wanted to progress through a romantic relationship in a healthy—and even holy—way.Once you have comfort with a girl you can start inviting her out to have fun.
Singles come to me fearing that they will be alone forever and want help finding love.The dating scene for couples today can be downright demoralizing, and for some, perhaps even dehumanizing.Especially amidst the hook-up culture on college campuses, it can be challenging to live and love virtuously.Do not plan the event far in advance, it is too predictable. Or you can just ask her, “What are you doing right now? What you can do then is to give her an open invitation to hang out with you and do another activity by asking, “I want to see you this week. It sets up the frame incorrectly, of you courting her. For the first date ideally the girl will come to your place to start out, instead of meeting her somewhere else.As long as you have built enough comfort with the girl at your first meeting this should not be a problem.