Because if one were enough, you'd have stopped bugging your BFF about how long you should wait till you text your ex back. But, even if that’s the case, then you should still bring it up to him and let him know that it’s out there for anyone to find; so sooner or later, his secret swiping won't be hush-hush.When it comes to bringing up sensitive situations, there’s always lots of different theories about whether or not “it’s your place” or if “you should stay out of their business.” But, even if you keep your mouth shut and get the best case scenario — she either finds out on her own, or it turns out they’re in an open relationship — when it comes to your relationship with her, the right thing for you to do is show that you were looking out for her.It was a quiet night in and, over a couple of glasses of wine, I flicked idly through Tinder to see if anyone caught my eye.Suddenly, I saw him, pint glass in hand, looking handsome and relaxed.Hi Jessica, I recently found the husband of my closest friend at work on Tinder.She is pregnant and had just flown abroad the same night I spotted him “active” at midnight. On one hand, I feel like she should know about his “extracurricular” activity.If I have to tell him, how do I be a messenger that doesn’t get shot?
She’s a few years older than me, in her early thirties, and as time passed I could see she was increasingly eager to get married and have children. Most importantly, he seemed equally bowled over by her, sending her flowers and telling her she was his perfect woman.
Now let’s assume worst case scenario: She might be embarrassed, she might be defensive, she might accuse you of lying or being jealous, and worst of all, she will be hurt and you might feel at least partly to blame.
It sucks but that’s part of the friendship contract, you’re there for the good and the bad times.
I was casually swiping along on my Tinder when just saw something surprising and bad: the profile of my friend’s long-term girlfriend. And if I do, how do I do it in a way that’s not just saying: IS YOUR GIRLFRIEND CHEATING ON YOU?
I don’t want to be a snitch, but I would want to know if I was him.